They are done with the past baggage that they’ve been carrying around. They feel appreciation.įor singles and those in new relationships, the Four of Cups reversed is a sign of feeling ready to let go of their past and embrace their future. They recognize that while there are always things that they do not have, they are blessed with so much abundance around them. They may be feeling grateful for the people and support systems around them. They are opening up to others again with their feelings, and they are ready to become more active in their romantic life again. They are beginning to look forward to the future, and they see that it has promise. They are exiting a time of withdrawal and contemplation. When the Four of Cups is reversed, it means that this person is feeling like they are ready to let go of the past. This person is not ready to make a larger commitment in the relationship until their mindset has been shifted to one of gratitude. They believe that the grass is greener on the other side, even when it isn’t. They cannot see the good that is in front of them, only what they are missing. They are careless about other people’s feelings. This person is very self-absorbed at the moment. In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the Four of Cups is a warning. They have to get out of their selfish mindset first. If you are wondering about getting back together or reconciliation, now is not a good time. They are being selfish and the only person they care about right now is themselves. They are withdrawn, hiding from their feelings. If you are asking about an old flame or an ex’s feelings about you, the Four of Cups indicates that they are too self-absorbed to think about their feelings right now.

You should talk to your partner about how they are feeling, but also remember that if their problem is internal, they will be the ones that need to fix it. The grass is always greener on the other side, but the grass is greenest where you tend to it. This person is withdrawn and not paying attention to the great things that they already have in front of them. The initial excitement has faded for them, and they are feeling directionless. Until they have a mindset shift, this person is not ready to move forward.įor existing relationships, the Four of Cups indicates that this person is feeling unexcited and bored with your relationship. This person is having a hard time focusing on new opportunities and relationships because they are so stuck within themselves. They are feeling more focused on what they don’t have, rather than what they already have. They are so self-absorbed that they do not even realize what they have in front of them. They are missing the spark of passion from their lives.įor singles and those embarking on new relationships, the Four of Cups means that this person is feeling withdrawn, bored, and indifferent.

The excitement has faded, and they are unsure of what direction they should go in next. This person may also be feeling weary and tired. This person may be in pain, but desperately trying to avoid it. While going inside of themselves can be a good thing when done meditatively, it can be a problem if this person is using it as an escape from their feelings.

If you are asking about how someone feels about you and you draw the Four of Cups, it means that this person is feeling bored and indifferent. The Four of Cups is a reminder and a warning to be grateful for what we have. Do not be so focused on what you do not have that you overlook what you already have. Do not be so self-absorbed that you do not see the wonderful opportunities for happiness around you. The Four of Cups reminds us that gratitude is a critical element to every successful relationship. Another three cups lie at his feet, but he does not notice them either. He is so engrossed in his own thoughts that he doesn’t notice an outstretched arm offering him a cup. This card shows a young man deep in reflection and meditation. The Four of Cups is the card of apathy, contemplation, disconnection, indifference, and boredom.

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